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The 4^th of our Top 5 Mistakes men make when it comes to threesomes is:

4. Showing instant exhilaration and far more enthusiasm than ever before

Whether it’s when you first get a favourable response from your woman about threesomes, or during/after the actual threesome, this is an easy mistake.

It’s understandable – you’ve been looking forward to having sex with two women since two minutes into puberty, and now it’s actually happening! Or perhaps you weren’t sure it was going to happen, then holy shit it did, and after the other woman leaves you run back into the room to start raving about how hot it was and you don’t shut up about it for days.

Enthusiasm is fine and great, just make sure it doesn’t make your relationship with your woman seem like choking down oatmeal in comparison.

I’m not suggesting at all that you don’t be thrilled, or that you muzzle your great feelings, because after all the point of a threesome is to have good feelings. Just be aware that you could make your woman feel bad if she never gets any enthusiasm from you, and then you lose yourself in ecstasy as soon as another woman is in the picture.

Here’s what I do suggest: Voice your appreciation and good feelings as being directed at your woman. Praise how she makes you feel, how sexy she is, how bad she is, how good she is, how naughty she is, how beautiful, witty, funny, cute, generous, talented and vivacious she is.

Obviously make it personal to her, and if she isn’t some of those things, compliment her on them anyway and she’ll likely develop them. Author David Deida has suggested that men grow by challenge and women by praise, and I think there’s truth in that.

You want to be enthusiastic about the threesome to the extent that she will keep feeling great about it, and to let her know you enjoyed it. You may compliment the other woman on occasion, but make sure you follow immediately with how your woman is special and is clear above all others for you. 10 to 1 is a safe ratio for appreciation towards your partner vs the other – and I’m only being slightly facetious.

Whatever comes to mind that’s positive, voice it. Even if she knows you know, say it anyway – who doesn’t like to receive praise and appreciation? Be genuine, otherwise it’ll sound like you’re up to something - her radar will be on Red Alert when threesomes are on the menu. As much as she’s hoping you won’t fuck up, she knows you probably will – you’re a man and not a woman, so successful navigation is tricky.

That’s why I’m writing a book, and giving some tips here. You can have the best of intentions, but the fact is you need some skills in order for you and your woman to reap the benefits of threesomes with another woman.

I’d love to hear from you here or at info@createthreesomes.com

The third of our Top 5 Mistakes men make when it comes to threesomes is:

3. Not reassuring his woman enough (about a lot of things)

If you were to be going out with your woman looking for other men to join you in a threesome, you’d want to be pretty damn solid in your belief that you are secure with your woman and attractive to her.

Yet even then you can’t really compare the reassurance necessary in that scenario to an FFM situation with your woman, because women are generally known for being emotionally bonded to their mates regardless of looks or status, whereas men are known for being stimulated by other women’s figures and youth regardless of how in love they may be with their woman.

Women don’t trust men’s perpetual readiness to fuck, because it could mean they’ll lose the interest of their man and be cheated on. Men usually do little to reassure their woman of their devotion, while doing plenty to let them know they are being run by their testosterone. Therefore when most men say “Hey! How about a threesome!” they are met with “Hey! You’re an ass who just wants my permission to cheat!” and it’s all downhill from there.

There’s a better way.

Regardless of any fantasies you have, reassuring your woman that she is loved by you and attractive to you will always be important. Every human being desires to be unconditionally loved above all else, and as the man in the relationship you are the one who can most provide that for your woman.

You need to let her know that you can’t help but stand by her and protect her no matter what. Protection may be more of a chivalrous concept today than physical necessity because of a relatively safe society, but there are times when it will be needed, and she needs to know she can count on you.

She needs to know she will not be left alone, and she cannot feel she is risking ending up alone by being open to a threesome where another woman will be naked in the room with you. What if you’re more attracted to the other woman? What if you decide to start seeing her on the side? If you are ever to have threesomes, the “What if’s” must be lovingly laid to rest through reassurance.

If you aren’t feeling particularly chivalrous, realize that emotions don’t just happen. We do emotions – though we usually just wait for certain criteria to be met in the external world before we give ourselves certain feelings. Someone cuts us off on the road and we get pissed, or someone shows kindness on the street and we feel gratitude.

That’s fine, except that it’s reactionary.

Don’t be reactionary in your relationship – step up and create good feelings, and give them to your woman. Don’t wait for things to happen, and don’t expect her to make you feel a certain way. You’re the man, so you have to lead. Give her reassurance and love, and then when threesomes are eventually up for discussion continue with the reassurance and love.

Our book discusses what reassurances are essential during the preparation and experience of a threesome, and as well as after the threesome has happened. Write us here or at info@createthreesomes.com for more info.

The second of the Top 5 mistakes men make when it comes to threesomes is:

2. Thinking it’s a ticket to salivate over other women

This one’s a big threesome killer. You do the proper steps leading to you mentioning the idea of a threesome, and your woman says she’s excited to do it. In a wave of enthusiasm you start pointing out potential candidates as you walk down the street, saying “Hey, she’s hot, she would be awesome for a threesome… Ooh I like her too…”

A few minutes later you notice the enthusiasm from your woman is no longer there, and instead she’s stiff, avoiding eye contact with you, and is angry. You wonder what went wrong - after all, she said she wanted a threesome! Since an FFM threesome is about having another woman you’re going to have to be able to choose one you’re attracted to, right? Hell, if she’s going to be cool with another woman being naked with you, she had better be comfortable with you pointing out the ones you think are hot, right?

No, actually. If it were a game show you’d get a big loud obnoxious buzzer, but since it’s your life and relationship you instead have lot of explaining and damage control to do after hurting the woman you love.

The better road is to be aware and informed up front, so you don’t inadvertently cause any harm in the first place.

When it comes to navigating a woman’s psyche men can step on so many landmines that they’ll usually try to rationalize that the woman is just too sensitive, or just give up and close in frustration at his woman not being willing to give him what he wants. Or was I alone when I used to act that way?

You have to be honest, yes, AND you have to be sensitive to how the opposite sex needs to hear what you want.

Her saying she’s open to a threesome is not her saying it’s ok to desire other women and tell her all about it. We explain in our book that one of the reasons it’s not ok is that she’s losing your attention when you look at other women, and she wants your attention all the time. Why? Because attention translates to love, care, and significance, and those are non-negotiables in a relationship. If other women are taking your attention, she’ll not only feel the loss, but will start wondering how she compares, and if down the line she could possibly lose you.

Even the most oblivious man could see that that mindset is not conducive to a hot romp in the sack.

Furthermore, when you’re checking out other women, you are excluding her in the process. By the way, saying “I think she’s hot” does NOT mean you’re including her because you’re telling her, but nice try.

Instead, ask your woman what her opinion is about certain women, and do it in the context of wanting to learn what she does or doesn’t like. If you’re pointing out women because you want to know your partner better, it’s a completely different mindset. Then when she says she likes someone, you can tell her you want what makes her happy, and she’ll love you for it.

If your woman feels she is involved in the process and will get what she wants, she’ll be happy wanting to make you happy. If you have had several successful threesomes with your woman and everything is more settled and comfortable, you can say more direct things like “I want her” and your woman will not only be ok with it, but she will get wet at the thought. Until the necessary comfort, trust, and bond is established, don’t go there.

When it comes to threesomes, there are A LOT of mistakes that men can make.

The mistakes can be made before threesomes are even mentioned, while they occur, and even after the fantasy has happened.

Over the next several posts we’ll give you our top 5 general ways men go wrong, aside from the BIG mistake of failing to prepare by doing the necessary groundwork before approaching the topic or going through with the fantasy. We go over that groundwork thoroughly in our book, which will be released as soon as it’s finished (info@createthreesomes.com).

The first of the Top 5 mistakes men make is:

1.     Making it all about them

Unfortunately human nature can get very selfish when big benefits are to be had. Throw a lot of money in the street and people will probably kick each other to get it, even though they were doing just fine up until they saw the money.

Likewise when threesomes are mentioned, men’s greed kicks in, the eyes glaze over, and instead of dollar signs their eyes shine with the image of two naked women. Most men are thinking they’d hit the jackpot when they think of a threesome, and they can only think about getting.

It’s precisely this attitude that keeps them from ever having one, unless it was in college with chicks who were too drunk to even notice a male was present. Men with getting attitudes will hire two women for trio sex, because those women will accept payment in return for what the man is taking.

Your wife or girlfriend will not however, and you will not feel fulfilled by the experience if there is not an equal flow of energy.

 You’ve got to realize that you’ll have not just one woman to provide for, but a second, and they will have a threesome only when they believe there’s enough in it for them.

The second woman only needs to feel she’ll benefit sexually while avoiding any negative social or health related consequences. Your woman however needs more: she needs to believe that she’ll benefit sexually and emotionally while avoiding all possible negative consequences. This can be no small task, but we can teach you how, step by step.

You’ll start off on the right foot by not making the experience about you, but rather about your partner. Get associated to what you can give, and your intentions will start to bear fruit.

It’s automatic that you can get a lot from the experience of a threesome without even being physically involved; simply watching your woman with another is an amazing experience. So don’t worry about getting; there’s plenty enough pleasure for all. Become the man who provides, and your cup (and bed) will be full.

This attitude is also essential when picking up the extra woman for your night of sin. When you approach as the provider rather than someone who is looking to get or take, the result will be dramatically different. Women will respond with interest, because your objective will be apparent to her through your presence, words, and offer.

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The fifth of our top 5 Reasons your woman could object to threesomes is:

5. She won’t be enough anymore

Once started, there’s no going back! There is always a fear that these new sexual adventures will become addictive and will turn conventional sex into a thing of the past because of its lack of excitement. Your woman doesn’t want to feel that you will always need two women in order to become extremely sexually aroused. That will of course make her feel obsolete, inadequate as your partner, and not enough to drive you crazy with lust.

As with all challenges regarding your woman and threesomes, you’ve got a golden opportunity here to really connect with her, and to make some distinctions for her that will open the door to plenty of sexual exploration.

The fact is that it is your connection to her which makes great sex possible.

Most guys idealize one night stands and sleeping with as many different women as possible, but in reality the sex often sucks. The thrill and ego stroke of having a new chick to fuck may be there, but the sex itself is usually no better than rubbing genitals somewhat awkwardly until you have an orgasm (which is also often sooner rather than later). With someone you don’t know there are thoughts in each person’s head about performance, how you look, if you compare ok to others, etc. There is often an element of putting on a show which for sure is fun in the beginning, but it quickly wears off.

You hear it time and time again from men who have a ton of sex with a ton of women: it’s empty, and they just wish they could really connect with a woman they could love. Most rock stars and movie stars spend a few years having sex with anyone they please, but almost all eventually marry. If you’ve gotten to know any Pick-Up gurus who have been around a while, you’ll see they’ve usually ended up settling down with one woman. I’ve got single friends who have more sex with more women than you’d think a guy could ever want, but they’re unhappy, because they feel alone.

Men don’t settle down because they’re settling, it’s because their happiness requires it.

So, first you must let your woman know that you aren’t settling for anything with her, but rather that you choose her because you love her.

The second thing to let her know that you know is that you can only have truly great sex with her, because of your connection to her. You cannot really let go with a stranger, use dirty talk, or experience any advanced sexual connections. In a couple you can really get to know each other and learn how to satisfy each other. A woman can really only let out her inner slut (which she craves) with a man she feels connected to, feels safe with, and trusts. That wild sex you crave can only happen when a connection is there. Yes a fling can be crazy, but you’ll be left empty.

If the sex is boring in your relationship, it’s because you’ve let familiarity kill the polarity of masculine and feminine. In our book about creating threesomes we show you how to create a sex life that will make threesomes a natural extension of the amazing sexual energy already present. Write us at info@createthreesomes.com to learn how to get the book.

After telling her and showing her that you’ve chosen her, that you love her, and that you could never have sex with anyone else like you do with her because you love her, then she will be more able to believe you when you say that threesomes are about the two of you experiencing an exciting encounter together. The sex will not meaningful like is between just the two of you, but it is another type of experience with its own thrills.

If you properly communicate this to your woman in a non-adversarial way, she will feel that she has something with you no woman can compete with, and she will relax in the threesome knowing that you can have fun without her becoming not enough anymore.

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The fourth of our Top 5 reasons why your woman could object to threesomes regardless of whether she’s new to the idea or bisexual is:

4. Being compared to the other women

 
“Is she better than me?”

That is the question your woman will be asking herself, over and over again. If the answer isn’t an immediate “no” it could be for many reasons. First among them is the body issue we discussed in the previous post, since bodies are the main source of competition among women. Besides that, she might not be too confident about her skills in the bedroom when compared to another woman, and even if she is, she could be worried that another woman’s pussy feels better than hers.

It will make her uncomfortable to be constantly thinking that the other woman is sexier, naughtier, has better techniques, or reaches orgasm faster (this is a sensitive spot especially if your woman has a hard time cumming or (gasp) has never had an orgasm).

On top of it all, new is exciting. You can guess that your woman doesn’t want to feel old, let alone be rendered old and boring merely by the presence of new.

If you feel the list is long, it’s worse than you think.

Basically anything you’ve ever commented on is probably on that comparison list. Any passing remark about an ex, or a woman on the street, was not only noticed by your woman when you said it, but keeps coming up in her mind whenever a similar topic arises.

Why? Because if you mentioned it, it therefore had your attention, and your woman wants your attention all the time. She wants to avoid losing your attention, so she will be wondering how she measures up.

Your woman can avoid facing many of these scary issues by simply refusing to have a threesome when you bring it up, and you really can’t expect otherwise - that is unless you can help her feel not only comfortable but exquisitely unique in your every day relationship. 

Providing reassurance outside of the context of threesomes is the first step, and then you must continue to provide that reassurance once threesomes are being discussed and created (info@createthreesomes.com). I know you as a man may not need reassurance every step of the way, but you’re not dealing with another man here. Your woman will always appreciate reassurance and praise. Because your woman is largely entrusting her happiness to you by being in a relationship with you, it’s important to her that she be important to you. That’s a mouthful to say step up and make her feel special.

One of the tips from our book that I want to share with you here is that when you do have a threesome, do not make your excitement too contrasting to your usual expressions of appreciation. For example don’t be jumping up and down after a threesome when you usually just roll over and start snoring when it’s just the two of you. Of course I don’t mean tone down your natural happiness after a threesome, I mean ramp up how vocal you are about appreciating your woman on a daily basis.

If your woman doesn’t normally get much enthusiasm from you, your very positive response could actually make her feel bad, even if she had a great time in the threesome as well. 

Imagine you and your partner have your routine dinners. Then one day you have the neighbours over for dinner, and everyone has a great time. Then afterwards your woman goes on and on about how interesting, funny, handsome, and stimulating the husband was. Chances are you wouldn’t feel too awesome about it, even if nothing was wrong before.

In closing let me say that in addition to how appreciated your woman currently feels in your relationship, how you set up approaching the topic of a threesome will determine whether your woman will feel she could be compared, and if she is compared that she’s sure she’ll come out on top in your eyes.

Write us here or at info@createthreesomes.com to for more details on setting up a threesome properly.

The third of our Top 5 reasons your woman could object to a threesome is:

3. Body insecurities

Women know full well that men are primarily attracted to the physical appearance of a woman: the hotter the body, the more it will drive a man wild with desire.  If your woman doesn’t feel like her body is the ultimate in sex appeal (and really, how many do), she will feel even worse about her appearance if another woman is physically more attractive.  Because men objectify women’s body parts, so do women with their own bodies.  If the guest woman is more attractive than your partner your woman will feel worse about her own body, piece by piece (breasts, thighs, ass, skin, weight etc.), therefore reinforcing her insecurity that she is not the object of your desire.  

Appearance is a tricky issue, because while a woman wants you to find her attractive, she doesn’t want to feel that you want her because she’s attractive. Women can be volatile on this topic, because they know that appearance counts for a lot, while resenting that it’s not just their inner qualities that count.

Really the only way to deal with it safely is to be sincerely complimentary in your words and affectionately dominant in your gestures, while reassuring her that you love her no matter what she looks like.

By affectionately dominant I mean taking charge in expressing physical attraction to her. For example, upon seeing your woman when you walk in the house, you make a noise like you’re tasting your favorite dish, stride over to her and pull her firmly against your body.

She will love feeling attractive to you, while also feeling loved because you are pulling her close. This is better than only making a cat call and not doing anything else, or only giving her a hug without any show of animalistic satisfaction inside you. The female energy needs polarity from the masculine, while also feeling nurtured. You’re showing she is both sexy to you and important to you.

Once she feels both of those things from you, when a friend is important to you or a playmate in a threesome is sexy, your woman will feel no competition or threat, because she’s both to you.

I do not in any way want to make women sound like petty attention seekers, and besides if you have that belief they will feel it. I see my woman as the vessel of a beautiful flowing energy that requires and deserves the right conditions for her to feel free and vulnerable. My masculine energy is as much a gift to her as her energy is to me.

So why this woo-woo talk of energy when the topic is body insecurities? Because by creating inner fulfillment for your woman she will be able to be happy regardless of what another naked body looks like. You can tell her she’s the most gorgeous woman you’ve ever seen, but despite being happy you feel that way, she has eyes and may be judging herself.

Make her feel beautiful as she is, and she will want to look her best. Make her feel that she’s more than enough as she is, and she will be happy to give you pleasurable gifts - sexual gifts.

To find out more, write us here or at info@createthreesomes.com

The second of our Top 5 reasons your woman would object to threesomes is:

2. The risk of a connection being made

If you simply announce that you think a threesome is a great idea, it would be fairly easy for your woman to picture the following scenario:

She agrees, you say “Great!”, you find a woman you’re attracted to, y’all get naked and have sex, and then afterwards you’re thinking about the other woman… a connection has been made, and you either wish you could or actually want to pursue it. She’s left alone while your attention (remember Reason #1) or presence is elsewhere. The relationship is ruined, all because you asked about sex with another woman. 

And guys wonder why women aren’t excited when they pop the threesome question…

Seriously man, unless you’ve addressed this 2nd reason to the point your woman feels certain no woman can replace her for you, your desires for threesomes will get no further than your mind connected to your hand.

She has to be absolutely certain of your connection to her and your love for her. She has to be certain that any connection made to another woman couldn’t possibly threaten anything in your relationship, now or ever (by connection we obviously mean becoming friends or you liking the girl, not you being romantically interested - we’re not talking polygamy here).

Your best bet in laying this fear of a meaningful connection being made to rest is by getting your partner associated to how she could in reality feel even more important to you when the two of you have sex with other women.

Counterintuitive perhaps, but absolutely possible. Our book shows you how. Write us here or at info@createthreesomes.com to find out more.

I’ll get you started by getting the belief instilled in you first. Realize that if your woman feels like the center of your world when another naked woman is in the room, she’ll get ultimate gratification. This isn’t to say anything less than this scenario is somehow worth less, but while words can lie, experiences can’t.

Think for a minute about what you have with your woman that no one else has. What sets you apart from everyone else? She has probably had sex with other men before you, but she’s with you now. There are probably better looking men out there, richer ones, and funnier ones, but it’s you that she’s attached to. Her interest in you has to do with who you are rather than who anyone else is, and how you make her feel. 

If you believe that she’s with you only because she has no other options, you’re not going to feel as good as you would if she could have anyone but chooses you.

Get associated to this, and then begin making your woman feel how she is incomparable, regardless of whoever else is out there. Don’t cerebrally explain, but do use words. Make her feel it.

As you give your woman the assurances she needs, she won’t feel she can lose when another woman is in the room. These assurances must be genuine and continuous - just remember what you’d need if the roles were reversed.

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Let’s get into the reasons your woman would object to threesomes.

As I mentioned in the previous post, these reasons don’t have to do with her prior interest (or lack thereof), nor with her sexuality. They don’t even have to do with how good of a man you’ve been in the relationship. If your relationship isn’t that great right now, our book will coach you on steering it in a better direction (info@createthreesomes.com). Yet even if your relationship is fantastic, your woman will still have fears which can become objections to threesomes.

A woman’s objections and fears aren’t about you, so don’t make them about you.Her fears exist to protect her personal and psychological needs. If you go on the offensive, create pressure, or in any way make her wrong to feel as she does, you will only entrench her resistance further and make her feel alone, which is chief among her fears.

You are a team, and you are learning about how she works NOT so you can maneuver her where you want, but rather so you can make her feel incredible. You will make her feel incredible by making her feel unconditionally loved, by giving her mind-blowing orgasms (info@createthreesomes.com), and by helping her lay her fears to rest so she can be free to experience all that she desires.
So let’s get to it. By understanding her reasons for objecting to threesomes you can address them, either indirectly or directly. The first on our list of reasons women would object to a threesome is:

                          1. Another woman is an “attention grabber”

Women NEVER want the attention of their man to be detracted from them for any reason, LEAST of all because of another woman. Women want to feel like they are the center of your attention at all times because attention and focus translate to importance and significance. If your woman feels like your attention and focus is elsewhere, she won’t feel important to you.

By you mentioning you’d like a threesome, you are saying you’d not only like your attention to be on another woman, but you want your body to be as well. That constitutes a hefty dose of attention elsewhere… What woman in her right mind would want her man in that position? One who doesn’t feel she could possibly lose your attention, that’s who.

If you are going to help her not only not have fear, but want to be in that position with you, you are going to have to establish the right context. You are going to have to establish a context for threesomes where it’s more about her than about you, and that no matter what benefits there are for you, they all come back to her.

If you’d be bullshitting by creating that belief, you’re not ready for a threesome with your woman. Yes, you can be excited about what’s in it for you, but you have to get absolutely clear on what’s in it for her, or you’ll get nowhere. If you want the feeling and excitement of a threesome, you have to create equally good feelings for her before, during and after the threesome.

Start by giving your attention to her to the point she feels assured she can never lose it.

You won’t be able to assure your woman of this overnight; it will take time and diligent awareness on your part. You have to begin by being attentive during your daily routines, and when she isn’t already expecting you to be attentive, such as while you’re at work or while she’s out with friends. Send little messages that let her know she’s on your mind, and make gestures small and large that show her she has your attention.

Do NOT do this like a dog wagging it’s tail in the presence of it’s master. Do it as her strong man who loves her and is protecting her with his attention. Do it as a man who has, and therefore can give.

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If threesomes are the #1 fantasy of most men, and they are also the most unrealized fantasy, there’s a major disconnect somewhere. You may be saying “Well, men want them and their wives or girlfriends don’t.” 

This actually isn’t the case. We know, because we’ve asked many random women. The fact is that women often would love to try a threesome with their man, but they haven’t or wouldn’t for a myriad of reasons. 

Before you ever approach the topic of threesomes with your woman, you’d better be aware of those reasons so you can address them up front.

Let us say right now that there is a lot of groundwork to be done before even asking what she thinks about threesomes - that is if you want her reaction to be favorable.

If you want her to say “Dream on”, “No way in hell”, “Oh you want other women now?” and plant a nasty seed of mistrust in your relationship that will be damn-near impossible to uproot, go ahead a wing it. 

We’d advise against it.

Seriously. If you want to make threesomes happen, there are ways to do it right, and there are thousands more ways to do it wrong.

It doesn’t matter if your woman isn’t one of those who secretly admit they would try a threesome if their man only knew how to make the conditions right. She may have not even thought of it before, or thought it isn’t something she’s interested in. Hell, your woman could even be bisexual. It doesn’t matter - women’s reasons for not having threesomes don’t have to do with sexuality, but rather psychology.

Believe me, your woman could be totally bisexual, and it does NOT mean that you’d be having threesomes with her. I thought having a bisexual woman would be an automatic passport to trio sex. Nope. Again, I know from experience.

So stop wishing your woman was more this or less that. Stop right now, because it doesn’t matter!

It doesn’t matter what she has or hasn’t done, but it does matter what YOU have or haven’t done. If you haven’t prepared yourself - let alone prepared her - you’re going to continue being part of the large, large majority of men who never have and never will have a threesome.

My next post will begin getting into some of those reasons so you can use your awareness to preemptively address them before they become a flat out objection. These reasons come from a woman, and any man would do well to be aware of them.Up next: the first of the TOP 5 REASONS WOMEN WOULD OBJECT TO A THREESOME.

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Have you ever wished you could have a threesome?

Of course you have!

Well, welcome to our resource on just that - how to Create Threesomes.

Threesomes - specifically the Female-Female-Male kind (FFM) - are the #1 most common sexual fantasy, yet they are also the most unrealized.

Our mission is to change that.

For those who are serious about wanting to live the fantasy, it is possible. I know, because I learned how - sometimes with costly mistakes.

If you don’t know how to properly approach the topic with your woman, it will go very wrong. If you don’t do the proper preparation, it could ruin your relationship.

Why even risk it then? Because it’s about more than the thrill of the fantasy - when done in the right way it will actually improve your relationship, creating a deeper connection, fueling fantasies and pleasure for both of you.

I have gone from being unable to get laid to creating threesomes in a relationship with a gorgeous, smart, highly sexual woman. I’ve learned from my own experiences, and I’ve especially learned from my partner; here you can get both a male and female perspective on FFM threesomes.

I can say from experience that threesomes can be everything you’ve dreamed them to be, and I want to show you how they can be even more than what you’ve imagined. 

Specifically, we want to show you how you can create them in a fulfilling relationship, so they are more than “just” an hour of sex with two women.

For now we are teaching men in relationships how they can create threesomes. If you are currently single, the information will be invaluable for when you do meet that gorgeous woman who stands out from the rest. You can do things right, right from the start to ensure that you will have incredible threesomes with your woman. For now follow us here and write us at questions@createthreesomes.com -we’d be happy to help.

For those of you already in an established relationship, it’s time to re-ignite the dream.

In addition to posting here, we will soon launch the best resource available on creating threesomes, including a map showing all the steps, laid out in clear, practical, applicable ways.  

Write us here or at info@createthreesomes.com and you’ll be the first to get informed.

In the meantime we’re adding the final touches while having a blast continuing our research in and out of the bedroom.

Sincerely,

A & C